Dory Cleveland

The Joy of Sexagenarian Sex

A Round-Heeled Woman: My Late-Life Adventures in Sex and Romance


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I suspect the editor sent me this book as a tease or a test. As the author’s near-contemporary, would I admire her chutzpah, or be shocked by her no-holds-barred anatomisation of geriatric sex, or even follow her example with a lonely hearts advertisement of my own? Hers, sent to the New York Review of Books, went: ‘Before I turn 67 next March I would like to have a lot of sex with a man I like. If you want to talk first, Trollope works for me.’ It did the trick. Sixty-seven men replied; she met seven of them, had sex with five and told the whole story in a book which has turned her into a celebrity in America. It is a fresh, original take on a well-worn theme. Google turns up literally hundreds of websites about Hot Grannies or Sexy Seniors, and long before the World Wide Web there was the archetypal Mrs Robinson teaching a young dog new tricks, or Stephen Vizinczey’s In Praise of Older Women, which seemed scandalous in 1965 because older women were supposed to be ‘past it. Now Elizabeth Taylor and Joan Collins are role models for senior citizens, and social workers distribute impertinent leaflets giving us permission to go on being ‘sexually active’.

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